It is time to grow up and stop giving people the finger.  I do not mean the middle finger but the finger of pointing blame on someone else.   If you screw up in life and it will happen, you need to suck it up and own it.  Take the blame and then learn from the screw up and improve your life.  This blaming someone else for you mistakes or short comings needs to stop.  Watch this short video and then go change for the better.

“Greatness Never Rests”